[Serusers] Db connection problem

Hey guys, Im now running Ser CVS, Tho, I want to have the voicemail service on a other box. So I added a user to my db that had access to the ser database .. and that works with the normal mysql -u ser -h hostname -p ... works like a dream.. Tho. when I modparam("vm", "db_url","mysql://ser:heslo@dbhost.domain.com/ser"> I wont work. I then replicated the database over to the same box. changed dbhost.domain.com to localhost.. it worked.. Tho still. my database is on a difrent box.. so what can be wrong.. - Atle voip-vm# stateless - initializing Maxfwd module- initializing textops - initializing voicemail - initializing 0(16159) ERROR: vm_mod_init: unable to bind db 0(16159) init_mod(): Error while initializing module vm ERROR: error while initializing modules