I have a cluster of 2 kamailios v5.5 on debian 9 working flawlessly.
We have added a third node, also on v5.5 but debian 11. Kamailio doesn't work correctly for some reason that I'm not seeing.
The symptoms are:
1- Kamailio receives INVITEs and starts to process them per routing script.
2- There is a specific place where something happens and the calls are dropped (Kamailio is not even replying to the source). Note that the config is exactly the same on all 3 servers, only one of the three is having the issue.
I can see it's related to the dialogs, but is this a cause or a consequence? I have checked the API access logs, and Kamailio doesn't get to send the request, I've also noticed that normally Kamailio replies with a 100-Trying almost instantly, in the case of this server I don't see a single 100-Trying from Kamailio.
I'm pretty lost here so any tips are more than welcome.
NOTE: I tried with debian11 + Kamailio 5.6 and the same issue happens too.