If you confine the scope of your evaluation to Kamailio itself, then of course it's substantial; you've deputised the event mux/polling workload into kernel space. While that makes it invisible, it doesn't obviate the clock cycles. I'm talking about formal performance.

This is like saying that Node can handle a tremendous amount of requests with a single process. I suppose it can, but only because it's able to farm out the work of monitoring sockets for data to the OS, and erase it from the ledger, if you like, of userspace costs. They still go somewhere, and that somewhere is constrained by available resources and dimensioning.

this is not a fair or reasonable comparison. In one case, you're using an external polling loop, and in the other, you're blocking your worker processes by definition. I doubt you could get 3 CPS through that config if the async shvar is set to 0.

Furthermore, the idea of an HTTP service that responds like a metronome in 1 sec, over local sockets and without any of the overhead of connection setup over a real-world network, is so contrived as to be tautological. You've neutered the synchronous approach to the maximum possible extent, while testing the asynchronous one in highly idealised conditions. In fact, tried your repo, followed your instructions on a hex-core server with 16 GB of RAM (2 GB of SHM allocated to Kamailio) and was able to get about 1600 CPS -- more than twice the OP's ask -- before seeing any retransmissions. It's so contrived as to be tautological, as if to say that being rich, young and healthy is better than being old, ill and poor. I cannot agree more.

If you empower the synchronous http_client approach with a comparable degree of parallelism, i.e. a large pool of worker processes with minimum package memory, you'll get comparable throughput. I agree that there are memory limits around that in Kamailio's concurrency model, and that was never in dispute. But you're going to pay it somewhere either way:

Mem: 16175052K used, 217632K free, 266764K shrd, 219644K buff, 10489916K cached

CPU: 22% usr 15% sys 0% nic 58% idle 0% io 0% irq 3% sirq

Load average: 0.46 0.54 0.45 7/555 32

PID PPID USER STAT VSZ %VSZ CPU %CPU COMMAND

14 1 root R 2076m 12% 3 14% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

10 1 root R 2073m 12% 1 3% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

9 1 root S 2073m 12% 3 3% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

12 1 root S 2073m 12% 0 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

1 0 root S 2073m 12% 4 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

17 1 root S 2073m 12% 4 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

13 1 root S 2073m 12% 1 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

16 1 root S 2073m 12% 3 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

11 1 root S 2073m 12% 5 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

7 1 root S 2073m 12% 5 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

8 1 root S 2073m 12% 2 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

15 1 root S 2073m 12% 4 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

18 1 root S 2073m 12% 2 0% kamailio -dDDE -de -n 2 -m 2048

26 0 root S 1696 0% 1 0% ash

32 26 root R 1624 0% 0 0% top -d 1